Here you will learn more about the
loves of my life and about the Lord's call on our family to adopt.
How we became Niles
and Maria
Niles was born in Rocky Mount, North
Carolina and I was born in San Juan, Puerto Rico.The Lord, in his infinite
wisdom, brought us to the same city at just the right moment- when we were high
school freshmen.One year later, Niles asked Maria to be his girlfriend, and
we’ve been together ever since! We spent the rest of our high school years marching
together in the band, hanging out with our friends, watching tons of movies and
growing up- together .After graduation we went to two different colleges
(Niles=Winthrop,
Maria=USC)
and commuted on weekends to see each other.Those four years of college were
difficult as we began our adult lives in different places, but the Lord used
that time to grow us closer to Him as individuals. We were engaged the December
of our senior year and were married in July, almost 7 years from our first
date.
We have now been married for 8 years
and have been together 15 –
half of our lives!
When 2 became 4
The Lord has blessed us with two
beautiful biological children, Turner Niles who is 5 and Calvin Richard who is
2 ½.
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| Turner is a sweet, inquisitive preschooler that loves soccer and superheroes. |
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| Calvin is a hilarious, determined, curious and active 2-year-old.He loves cars and his snuggly-sheep and is REALLY excited about becoming a big brother soon! |
The Call to Adopt
June 19, 2011 was the day God clearly spoke to me (Maria) his desire for our family to adopt a baby. It was Father's Day. Our pastor, Skip MacMillan, was preaching a sermon on Deuteronomy 1 where Moses was recounting to the Israelites the last time they stood at the precipice of the land of Canaan (the Promise Land). Moses spoke of the fear and disbelief that prevented the Israelites from obediently entering ad taking possession of the land. This disobedience condemned the Israelites to wander the desert for forty years.
Skip cautioned us against similar disobedience citing specific examples in Deuteronomy 1:26-28. In those verses Skip discussed 3 things the Israelites did that lead them into a dark, disobedience.
1.
Unwillingness "Yet
you would not go up, but rebelled against the command of the LORD your
God" ( v. 26)
2. Believe Lies about
the Lord to excuse disobedience “you murmured in your tents and
said, 'Because the LORD hated us he has brought us out of the land of Egypt,to
give us into the hand of the Amorites, to destroy us” (v. 27)
3. Blame Other People for their own disobedience “Our brothers have made our hearts melt...” (v. 28)
3. Blame Other People for their own disobedience “Our brothers have made our hearts melt...” (v. 28)
As
I considered these things, specifically the Unwillingness to follow and
obey God, to trust God promises, power, love for them, I found myself asking
the Lord to show me areas of unwillingness in my heart.
The
answer was so loud, so clear, that I felt like my head and heart might explode!
God made it clear to me that for some time he had been calling our family to
adopt a child and I until that moment had been unwilling to obey. The thought
that ran over and over and over in my mind was "You have a daughter somewhere
else- go get her." There was such a sense of finality in that moment-
the direction was clear and I was to walk in it. As the Israelites were called
to walk in God's promise into the Land of Canaan our family was called to
walk down the path of adoption.
During
that service (and the following one which I stayed in to make sure I was
hearing clearly!) the Lord blessed me with encouragement. He brought to
mind several recent and positive adoption conversations I had had with friends
and family... there were moments while singing that I was so overcome with love
for my daughter that I couldn't even sing or stop the tears from flowing... And
so our journey began! We are aware that the Giants on this road are many and yet we are
certain if the LORD delights in us, he will fulfill this desire he has
given us and he will work the details out to bring our baby home.
As we have taken steps toward bringing our baby home and have spent more and more time learning about God's heart through his Word, our hearts have grown bigger and bigger for adoption. We believe that adoption is a beautiful picture of God’s love for us. No matter what we’ve done, or where we’re from, He has brought us into his family and adopted us as sons and daughters by faith in Jesus. Not only that- but he DELIGHTS in us! We cannot wait to share this truth with the baby the Lord brings into our family.
As we have taken steps toward bringing our baby home and have spent more and more time learning about God's heart through his Word, our hearts have grown bigger and bigger for adoption. We believe that adoption is a beautiful picture of God’s love for us. No matter what we’ve done, or where we’re from, He has brought us into his family and adopted us as sons and daughters by faith in Jesus. Not only that- but he DELIGHTS in us! We cannot wait to share this truth with the baby the Lord brings into our family.
Now what?
Now
we wait.
We
are officially approved by our agency and the State of SC to adopt a
baby from the United States through our agency or through a private adoption.
Our nursery is stocked and ready for either a baby girl or boy.
The car seat is prepped to be put in our van at a moments notice... We eagerly
and joyfully wait for a call that will change our lives forever!
What can YOU do?
1.
PRAY!
Please join us in prayer for the woman that will be our baby's birthmother. Pray that she will have the courage and support she will need to make and follow through with an adoption plan. Pray that she and the baby are sheltered under the LORD'S wings during her pregnancy (Psalm 91:4). Pray too that the Lord will continue to provide the necessary funds we will need to offset the costs associated with our adoption.
Please join us in prayer for the woman that will be our baby's birthmother. Pray that she will have the courage and support she will need to make and follow through with an adoption plan. Pray that she and the baby are sheltered under the LORD'S wings during her pregnancy (Psalm 91:4). Pray too that the Lord will continue to provide the necessary funds we will need to offset the costs associated with our adoption.
2. Book a photoshoot with Maria!
Our photoshoots have been one of our primary fundraisers and we would love to do more! For current promotions and for samples of Maria's work for Ruthie B Photography please visit our promotions page- here.
Our photoshoots have been one of our primary fundraisers and we would love to do more! For current promotions and for samples of Maria's work for Ruthie B Photography please visit our promotions page- here.
3. Donate!
Our best guess is that the costs associated with our adoption (agency fees, legal fees, documentation fees etc.) will be in the range of $15,000-$20,000. We are confident that the Lord has called us to welcome home a baby though adoption and that HE will provide all that we need to bring him or her home! If you'd like to be a part of what God is doing in our family please DONATE HERE
Our best guess is that the costs associated with our adoption (agency fees, legal fees, documentation fees etc.) will be in the range of $15,000-$20,000. We are confident that the Lord has called us to welcome home a baby though adoption and that HE will provide all that we need to bring him or her home! If you'd like to be a part of what God is doing in our family please DONATE HERE
Thank you for your love and support!
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